HOW TO LEARN ONE OWN LESSONS-

by Chennai based K.B.Gopalakrishnan

2nd janurary, 2007 11:52AM

 

 

Many people want guru because they want enlightment or moksha. The writer looks it another way

 

Every one is wanting to understand on love. We do different things to perfect this process. Guru is a guide, help, an example, an inspiration, a coach in these matters. Many people in front of their guru act like holy cows and behind the back do all atrocious activity. Learning lessons mean basically learning to follow yama and niyama. This means under difficult situation and people following the values. A guru reminds you follow it.

Some one asked me will u become my teacher. I said it bluntly life is real teacher. Situations, people, circumstances that irritate you are the biggest teachers. Then people who are close to you will irritate you, make you upset etc. then they are your real teachers.

The author uses following methodology to learn lessons.

  • The author feels that you do not meet or interact with people with out a purpose.

  • If one tunes in to god and ask what is the purpose immediately it will get revealed

  • Any one talking to you about same problem you have.

  • Any one telling you the solution for their past problems.

  • Any person or incident gets repeated many times.

  • If some one is upset with me – I usually ask where did author upset some one?

  • If some one suffers I ask what should I learn not to do?

  • If some one is happy I ask myself what should learn from this make me happy.

  • I also say sorry or feel regret for the action or words author have done which upsets the other person.

  • Being truthful even if it painful for short term.

  • Becoming aware with difficult people and circumstances.

  • Praying for others.

  • Accepting people and their gifts gracefully.

  • Not getting in to ego clash or proving point and making myself too big.

  • Avoid revengeful action.

  • Giving up preferences and learning to adjust.

In other words asking one self how to make other person life happy, peaceful and positive. I am not perfect and I do not think  this process is easy but then sincere attempt is what is wish to perfect.

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