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HANDLING
RELATIVES
by
Chennai based Astrologer K.B.Gopalakrishnan
12th janurary ,,2009
2;25 PM
Many
people have problems with the relatives. They can not get along
with them and in general have lot of fights, misunderstandings and
bickerings constantly. In fact many people tend to rely on the friends
than on relatives. Some of them hardly talk. One woman told that
her brother did not speak to her for more than 20 years. When she
greeted him for Christmas he acted as if he had never heard of her.
The
main reason for fights among relatives is comparison. People constantly
compare there achievement with others. Meeting relatives become
the point of showing one’s own achievement, success and level
of living. Instead of exchange of love it become public relation
exercises, advertisement campaign and publicity stunt. Many people
are not happy with other people’s achievement. They tend to
look other person success as fluke and their own success due to
hard work.
In
this series of meditation articles chennai based meditator and spiritual
guide K.B.Gopalakrishnan talks about the ways to handle the relatives.
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Talk less. The more you talk the problems also arises
- Appreciate
every one and listen to everyone. It will solve 90% of the problems
- If
someone brag and boasts then try to make him happy in moderation.
People are insecure they do not realize in the end it does not
really matter who thinks of u as what but what u do.
- By
nature bless the lineage’s communication. The more one
blesses more harmony will be there
- Stay
focused. When you go for the functions chant for the person,
dedicate the merit instead of talking and gossiping.
- Remember
the law when you feel happy for some one success u will be successful.
I have seen many people. They do not appreciate and they remain
fameless or unnoticed in their life
- Every
one has fear and forgets death. When you remember death all
the fights and comparison will look insignificant.
The
fastest swords are never drawn, the greatest men never talk and
noblest of the virtues never comes out in public.
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