HANDLING RELATIVES

by Chennai based Astrologer K.B.Gopalakrishnan

12th janurary ,,2009 2;25 PM

Many people have problems with the relatives. They can not get along with them and in general have lot of fights, misunderstandings and bickerings constantly. In fact many people tend to rely on the friends than on relatives. Some of them hardly talk. One woman told that her brother did not speak to her for more than 20 years. When she greeted him for Christmas he acted as if he had never heard of her.

The main reason for fights among relatives is comparison. People constantly compare there achievement with others. Meeting relatives become the point of showing one’s own achievement, success and level of living. Instead of exchange of love it become public relation exercises, advertisement campaign and publicity stunt. Many people are not happy with other people’s achievement. They tend to look other person success as fluke and their own success due to hard work.

In this series of meditation articles chennai based meditator and spiritual guide K.B.Gopalakrishnan talks about the ways to handle the relatives.

  • Talk less. The more you talk the problems also arises
  • Appreciate every one and listen to everyone. It will solve 90% of the problems
  • If someone brag and boasts then try to make him happy in moderation. People are insecure they do not realize in the end it does not really matter who thinks of u as what but what u do.
  • By nature bless the lineage’s communication. The more one blesses more harmony will be there
  • Stay focused. When you go for the functions chant for the person, dedicate the merit instead of talking and gossiping.
  • Remember the law when you feel happy for some one success u will be successful. I have seen many people. They do not appreciate and they remain fameless or unnoticed in their life
  • Every one has fear and forgets death. When you remember death all the fights and comparison will look insignificant.

The fastest swords are never drawn, the greatest men never talk and noblest of the virtues never comes out in public.


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