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Many people come and tell me that they are good people and they have lot of problems. Some healers say because they have got involved in other people’s lives their lives have become messed up. This is partially true. I was swinging between being good and helpful and being non-helpful. First of all, to do good means stirring up some one karma. It is not so easy the way it looks. One requires focus, energy, effort and lot of god’s grace to solve some one’s problems. Many people who get bad name from other after helping them do not understand few basic truths. Many people do not like to overcome their karmic barriers. Many people have karmic resistance which does not allow their mind to be open and receptive for higher truth and living. Secondly many people do not have karya siddies, mental clarity, and gift of speech, ability to put links and start and end a process. Few gifted souls have this ability. Many people can start anything but cannot finish what they have started. Mental clarity and ability to use one’s own speech is very limited. Thirdly, when you help others following laws will operate. You will get defocused from your life problems. This is like a curse. One needs to be careful. One needs to pray to remain focused on one’s own problems. What technique you use for others you cannot use it for oneself. There was a woman who got everyone married. But she could not get her children married. The reason is spiritual pride. She assumed that it would be very easy to get her children married because she knew the template and the link. It got back fired. The great cook eats only rasam rice. Sweet makers never touch sweets. Doctors hire some other doctors to solve their health problems. In the same way one needs to invoke god’s grace and act with humility to solve one’s own problems. These people are not very open. Generally gurus or teachers do not open their lives to others and even if they open up they do not listen to others. They feel spiritual pride and in fact tend to advice people who try to make them understand a truth or reality. Being open in spite of being a guru is very important. You can make outside people understand and make them do what is good for them. Inside people have karmic resistance. It takes very long time to make relatives understand the soul lesson or make them do good for themselves. law of mouth - we feel it is easy to do a event like marriage or child birth and we tend to boast about our ability. We also criticize other people for their limitation. I know many healers who tend to put down others and like to glorify their ability. This invokes law of mouth. I know many parents who can do events easily for one child. But doing for the next child, getting married or making them study is tough. What good we do for other people, we cannot do for their own children because we are not humble and we do not invoke god’s grace. What we say as easy becomes tough in action and what we say as short becomes long in action. Always remember this, world is made up of different people. One needs to be careful not to wound and hurt others of their limitation and praise others in spite of their limitation. Maintaining secrecy- however you are successful, the next project and the next dream should be kept in secret before it manifests into physical reality. Jesus Christ says do not bring me to test. In the same way we will get tested for our humility, kindness, forgiveness and the attitude that we are instrument of god. Many times the ego takes over and believe we are omnipotent which leads to pain and suffering. One also needs to let go when the process or our role is over because of kindness and compassion. Many people struggle to let go or over do and then they have lot of problems. Did you pray for your problems? Most gurus or healers do not pray for the problems. This tend to aggravate their personal problems. Did you bless other people who have same problems? Did you help other who have same problems like you? I tend to have two rules. Help people who have same problems like me. Secondly help people who ask you for help. When other people do not have similar karmic problem like you then involve less. If you want your daughter to get married then help people to get married. If you want to grow in business then help other people to make a living. Helping other people through money or physical help is better than giving advice. Many people give loads of advice because it is free, easy and does not carry whole some perspective. My wife told me to help in her kitchen rather than giving advice. May be many people do not need all these advice. If they have money they can solve the problems. When you help people either with money or with physical help or give objects, they appreciate more than advice given by others. Finally when you help others tremendous divine energy comes in. one can channel the energy to some desire by blessing. For example when someone helps others there is a sense of joy and rise in energy. We can bless our house for that punya to go or for everything we desire for. Generally people go in euphoric joy and go for oh and hah. This wastes the energy what one has generated. These are some ways you can protect yourself and at the same time help others. The doctors wear gloves and cover their face with masks when they operate. In the same way one has to take certain psychic precaution. What you do for others, god will do it for you. One can grow faster when you help other people’s event like marriage, health, child birth etc.
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